Embracing Contiguity: Finding Connection in the Interruptions of Life

In our quest for continuity, we often overlook the beauty of contiguity—the moments of connection that exist even in interruptions and disconnections. Instead of constantly striving for seamless progression, perhaps we should learn to appreciate the richness of being present in each moment, regardless of its perceived continuity.

Life can be full of a series of interruptions. From unexpected phone calls to unforeseen detours, interruptions disrupt our carefully laid plans and challenge our sense of continuity. Yet, within these interruptions lies an opportunity to embrace contiguity—to remain connected to ourselves and our surroundings despite the disruptions. When we are interrupted, we have a choice: to resist the interruption and cling to our plans or to accept it and adapt to the new circumstances. By choosing the latter, we open ourselves up to the possibility of discovering unexpected connections and insights.

In those moments of interruption, we are still in connection with our space and time, albeit in a different way. Our attention shifts, our focus changes, but we are still present—still engaged with the world around us. It's a reminder that continuity is not the only path to connection; contiguity offers its unique form of connection, one that transcends linear progression. Being interested in being means embracing contiguity—the ebb and flow of life's interruptions and disruptions. It means recognizing that connection is not dependent on continuity, but on our willingness to engage with the present moment, however it may unfold.

In a world that often values productivity and efficiency above all else, embracing contiguity can feel counterintuitive. But perhaps it is precisely in those moments of interruption and disconnection that we have the most to learn about ourselves and the world around us.

So let us embrace the interruptions, the disruptions, and the moments of contiguity that punctuate our lives. Let us be interested in being—not in achieving some elusive state of continuity, but in fully experiencing the richness of each moment, interruption, and all.

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